The Pleasure Priest.
Sexual empowerment coach for gay men.
I teach shame release, body acceptance, and mindful pleasure.
Who am I?
I’m Coach Kevin Martin — a Master-level intimacy coach, shame healer, and guide helping gay men break free from self-hatred and finally own their body, sexuality, confidence, and truth with pleasure.
I’ve spent the last ten years coaching, creating, and carving out safe, powerful spaces where gay men can heal, rise, and live unapologetically.
My work blends deep emotional insight, real-world tools, and no-BS support to help you stop performing for love and start living like you belong to yourself.
Whether we’re diving into sex, identity, confidence, or connection through 1:1 coaching, retreats, or content, I’m here to walk with you through the fire, and into your power.
Photographs by Brian Kaminski.
My Services
Talk-Based Coaching
60 minutes of conversational coaching with me to mentally and emotionally work through sexual shame, religious trauma, consensual non-monogamy, and anything and everything in-between. Virtual or in-person. Schedule here.
Naked Guided Meditation Sessions
Receive a personalized guided meditation focused on accepting your body, releasing shame, and learning breathwork techniques. Virtual or in-person. By application only. Apply here.
Naked Self-Touch Sessions
Learn how to touch your body in a shame-free, empowering, pleasure-centered way to reclaim your self-connection and heal your nervous system regarding pleasure. Virtual or in-person. By application only. Apply here.
Current client, 37 yo.
“I didn’t just stop feeling ashamed—I started feeling fucking alive. Working with Kevin has changed my sex life, my confidence, and my relationships.”
Current client, 52 yo.
“I didn’t realize how much shame was running my life until Kevin’s work ripped it out of me. I’m having better sex, I’m more confident in my body, and I finally feel free to be the man I’ve always wanted to be.”
21 Day Challenge
21 Day Challenge
Join my 21 Day Sexual Empowerment Challenge
Step Into a More Confident, Shameless Sexual Relationship With Yourself
If sex feels performative, numb, compulsive, or disconnected — this is where the pattern breaks.
Not by trying harder.
Not by becoming someone else.
By slowing down and returning to your body.
2026 Retreat
Austin, TX | June 2026
Workshops. Transformational sessions.
Firelit conversations. Real connection.
14 spots.
Apply now.
Contact Me
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