The Pleasure Priest.
Erotic empowerment coach for gay men.
I teach shame release, body acceptance, and mindful pleasure.
Who am I?
I’m Coach Kevin Martin — a Master-level erotic empowerment coach, shame healer, and guide helping gay men break free from self-hatred and finally own their body, sexuality, confidence, and truth with pleasure.
I’ve spent the last ten years coaching, creating, and carving out safe, powerful spaces where gay men can heal, rise, and live unapologetically.
My work blends deep emotional insight, real-world tools, and no-BS support to help you stop performing for love and start living like you belong to yourself.
Whether we’re diving into sex, identity, confidence, or connection through 1:1 coaching, retreats, or content, I’m here to walk with you through the fire, and into your power.
My Services
Talk-Based Coaching
60 minutes of conversational coaching with me to mentally and emotionally work through sexual shame, religious trauma, consensual non-monogamy, and anything and everything in-between. Virtual or in-person. Schedule here.
Naked Guided Meditation Sessions
Receive a personalized guided meditation focused on your sexual empowerment goals to accept your body, release shame, learn breathwork techniques, and heal through visibility. Virtual or in-person. By application only. Apply here.
Naked Self-Touch Sessions
Learn how to touch your body in a shame-free, empowering, pleasure-centered way to reclaim your eroticism and heal your nervous system regarding pleasure. Virtual or in-person. By application only. Apply here.
The SHAMELESS Method™
A six-step framework for identifying, understanding, and releasing sexual shame.
Step 1: Reveal
Become aware of your internal shame messages. What are the phrases, tones, or fears that loop inside your head when you think about your body, your desire, or your identity?
Step 2: Root
Trace those messages back to where they came from—family, religion, media, past relationships, or moments of rejection. Every voice of shame has an origin story.
Step 3: Review
Ask the honest question: Is this belief actually helping me, or is it keeping me small? This is where we separate truth from inherited conditioning.
Step 4: Release
Let go of the messages that are no longer serving you. This step is about forgiveness, grief, and liberation—the moment your body exhales.
Step 5: Replace
Create new, helpful messages that reflect who you’re becoming, not who you were told to be.
Step 6: Repeat
Rehearse those new messages daily. Speak them, breathe them, embody them—until they become second nature, until they feel like home.
Current client, 37 yo.
“I didn’t just stop feeling ashamed—I started feeling fucking alive. Working with Kevin has changed my sex life, my confidence, and my relationships.”
Current client, 52 yo.
“I didn’t realize how much shame was running my life until Kevin’s work ripped it out of me. I’m having better sex, I’m more confident in my body, and I finally feel free to be the man I’ve always wanted to be.”
2026 Retreats
Honolulu, HI | February 2026
Austin, TX | June 2026
Workshops. Transformational sessions.
Firelit conversations. Real connection.
12 spots each.
Register now.
Contact Me
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